BM and BF are set to go back to court again on Tuesday regarding her suing him for more child support money...we'll see how that goes. Two weeks ago when SS came out here, BM's and his cellphones were "messed up" (had been shut off). Now, her home phone "isn't working right either" (has been shut off). She still has internet though, because she emailed me to ask if I could have SS email her to let her know how he was. We were away for the weekend and didn't have access to email, but she had several numbers to reach us at which she never called. She lives right next door to her parents and could simply walk over there and call him...but no, she wants me to have him email her so she doesn't have to go out of her way...They know that her phone has been shut off because we were diligent in having SS call their house twice a day to check in with BM. BM's mother would walk over to BM's house to tell her that SS had called, and eventually when BM decided to get around to it she would go over to her parents' to call back. BM also cancelled her cruise this fall because she can't afford it (the cost was well over $2500!). Though we found out that she cited SS's medical conditions as the reason, and said that he would be having "extensive medical procedures this summer and fall which would require long periods of recovery". WTF? She doesn't need to give them a reason, just say you wish to cancel and need your money back, whatever they can give according to their policy. Now that she's lied about it to try to get ALL of her money back, she's going to have to cough up doctor's excuses and documentation to prove these made-up procedures are happening and then what will she do? You know what, MAYBE you shouldn't have gone and booked a $3,000 cruise after you got FIRED from your JOB!!!

You know, I have to wonder...why can't this woman just get a darn job?! It's been nine months now! It doesn't take a college graduate nine months to find a decent job. Or even a semi-decent job, enough to cover the bills until you can find a decent one! What is her problem? I'm really starting to get worried for SS because if the phones have been shut off for two weeks, what else is he going without that we don't know about? Will the electricity get shut off soon too? What about food?