I can't take it anymore im bout to call it quits with the trying to teach him manners and telling SS no to sweets all the time. Making him take naps and going to bed at a certain time.It seems like on the exchange when dad goes and picks him up he cries and throws a fit!like SS dosent want to go home with us makes me feel like crap!I just want to scream!!!I understand that BM is SS mother and so they will always have a bond that i can never have with him. But I also just want to tell SS when he is throwing one of those fits when we pick him up for exchange that does he know the only reason SS is alive is because dad said no to her going to get an aboration then the other time he called the police so they could get her not to stab her stomach with SS in it to kill him!!!!But he is only 2 and id on't know if he needs to know those things at all.But i just wish he would that we love him so much thats why we do the things we do,we want him to grow up and have manners and be a good person unlike the BM!!Why do I get so emotional with this it hurts me so much when we pick him up and cries.But a couple hours later he will be our little boy.Its so confusing what do I do???I need help handeling this I don't have any kids myself so maybe im just wanting too much out mine and SS relationship?It makes me so mad that BM takes the bond and SS love for grated the way she does!!!!Please HELP!!!!!!!!!