Another DH/SS Rant
Ugghhh. DH says to SS14 at the dinner table, "you're a really good big brother." What a joke. I get that DH is trying to get SS to have positive feelings about the family and about DS3, but why outright lie?? Did the therapist tell him to say stuff like this? WTF! Who knows?
SS barely has a relationship with his little brother. He doesn't play with him at all. We can't buy anything for DS without him getting jealous. We walk on eggshells around SS. I'm sick of the pretending, but I pretend every day for the sake of DS, who loves his older brother despite the fact that he's not nice to him. But, I won't lie and say he's a good brother. He totally isn't and I don't know what DH gets out of saying that. Because now SS is actually going to think that his crappy behavior and actions make him a good person. Ugghhh!