Not My Home Anymore
I understand that adult children sometimes need a place to stay forage few days or even sometimes move back in with their parent(s). Oldest SS is 24. He has a child. Suddenly he is here because he broke up with his GF and mother of his child. If he needed to stay here a few days I could deal with it and be fine, but no one even asking me pisses me off. The SS24 leaves for the day and comes back with his son. Now they are both here. I could manage this too if I was asked, if SS was looking for another place, not drinking all day, and NOT BRINGING WOMEN INTO MY HOME!
Last nigh SS left saying he will be back which sounded like he would be back shortly. He was gone all evening and most the night. His son even woke up while he was away and started screaming for his mom and dad. I dont know what time SS24 came back. I was asleep. When I got up at 4:30 am to get ready for work I notice a boot by the backdoor. It looked like a women's boot. Odd I thought. Then at work I was stressing about everything at home and there wasn't much work to do so I came home. I'm sitting on the couch in the family room playing a game on my phone when some woman I've never seen before comes walking in from the upstairs doorway. I was in absolute shock. Obviously SS had brought her over but how was it possible that there was a complete stranger in my home and I didnt even know it?
I told DH how I felt about it and now waiting for him to do something. Maybe he's waiting for some miracle to happen or waiting for me to do his dirty work. I can barely see straight I'm so angry.