Fml with a Ss and a mean SO
So lol this is gonna be long af!
I have two kids ages six and three. I also have a Ss age 10. Me and my SO have been together for five years now. We've lived together almost five years also. His sons mother really doesn't have shit to do with him unless it's on her time over the weekend and she doesn't have anything more important than her own child. I stay at home, my So works all day during the week so I'm the one who's watching the kids... even when my So is home, I'm still the only one watching the kids. Well I just CAN'T STAND my Ss, mostly because he has attitude and doesn't have to mind anything unless his daddy isn't home. He knows when daddy comes home he can do whatever he wants because daddy doesn't have rules and if I say anything to him his daddy will bite my head off. SO comes home from work and lays in the bed while playing the game. I don't let my kids hang out in my room because it's the only personal space I have to feel at home... cause Ss runs the rest of the house. Well when his daddy plays the game Ss comes in and sits on our bed annoyingly af knowing I don't let them in my room, but daddy is home so rules don't apply. Even if I tell my two kids to go play So still lets brat sit awkwardly on the bed while my heart beats out of my chest from stress! I don't have a car, I don't have a license, I don't have a job, I don't have money! So I'm stuck... I have no way to even get my license since I have three kids 24/7. I want out of this relationship. I want to leave but my So is the biological father of my 3 year old. My So is also very emotionally abusive. He yells at me daily, he will just get mad out of nowhere and I sit and say nothing because I'm tired of arguing. Ten minutes later he will apologize and if I don't accept the apology he starts yelling again. Any ideas on how to get away? I can't get a apartment because my So and I owe money from a past apartment and I'm broke.