I only joint last night and I think me and fiancé are over.
I give and I give, Ive done so much for my partner. I stuck by him when he went to prison, I took care of his nan while he was away, he had a bad past that I accepted as people can change and people make mistakes.
Still it’s not good enough! He left with his son last night was supposed to come home. And his son new that but then after his son spoke to his mum etc the next minute his son was like I don’t want you to go home. Why are you leaving me. Your out of order, you have to stay with me at nanny’s etc.... so my partner stayed with him last night at my mother in-laws. And now on top it if my partner didn’t go to work today because his son moaned again. He said to his son you know I’ve got to go home and I’ve got to go to work and yet again gave into him as per usual. Any time I’ve spoke to my partner today he’s in the back ground dad get off the phone and come and watch me play PlayStation, dad I want a drink get off the phone, dad, dad, dad......
im sure my step son knows what he’s doing. And him and his mother enjoy keeping us apart. I’ve done nothing but cry today and feel like if this was the other way around I’d be there straight away to comfort my partner. But he’s said to me I have to be more understanding! More understanding of what? I’ve never said a bad word about his ex, I’m lovely to his son and make sure he has what he needs when he’s in my home and it just gets thrown back in my face.
I told my partner I was going to pack all of his stuff and he can collect it when he’s ready. And now he’s upset with me as he doesn’t want that. And I don’t really want that either. But wtf am I supposed to do?!
i can’t take it anymore. And I’m certainly not going to let this carry on when the baby is here and it’s not fair on my daughter.