First Time Member
Hello to everyone,
Im totally new to this group and I have been dealing with a lot on my own for to long. I was married for 26 years and have 4 children with that same man. We divorced and I got remarried in 2016 to which I gained a stepson. He has been a difficult child from very beginning. Calling me names , hating me for ruining his life. Etc We did counseling and moved to a area he loved. Things were slowly getting better . He is now 14 and 6ft taller then his dad. Withdrawn and failing all his classes. Got him on medication and help from school . He is totally into his gaming. His father works three days 3-11pm and two day 7-3pm. For the last month and half he was staying at our home some of the time since his mom lives in same town he was 1 week us 1 week his moms. But he got upset with his mom and stepdad so he would just stay with us. I knew it wasn't good but I dealt. He loses his anger very fast and gets very very upset to where he throws things and screams and yells. Yesterday was a change of events. I was in our den with my husband his dad watching tv. He came in yelling where is it ! ! Over and over I had no clue what he was talking about . He was missing his computer mouse. He blamed me said I took it . His anger built higher and higher . He mouthed off to his dad . Dad works for the state with troubled kids. His son got violent he restrained him for 10-15 mins. To which I was out of site he gets away from his dad and comes after me running downstairs to find me yelling he hated me wished I was dead. Gets to me and starts pushing me up against our front door and kicking me . His father grabs him again. And takes him to a different room. I'm on the phone with his mom/stepdad who is a cop. I call 911 and run upstairs to our bedroom lock the door. Talk to operator again he comes after me yelling kicking and punching the door. But can't get in. Cops come his stepdad comes and charges are pressed. He goes home to his moms house. I have been a nervous reck, can't sleep , eat , emotional. Scared to be home alone when my husband has to work at night. This is the worst thing I have ever had happen. I worry my husband will stop loving me , we have so much ahead of us to deal with this. CY is involved for his son to get help . So I'm sharing my nightmare with all of you for words of encouragement and wisdom and that I'm not alone in this .