Problems with 6yr old stepson
Okay I met my husband a year and a half ago we got married on our one year anniversary of dating, he has two kids a 4yr old daughter and 6yr old son from previous relationship, I'm pregnant also and due in just a week. I feel like everything was fine before we got married in August, once we got married and my husbands ex found out I was pregnant it's like everything went down hill and now my husband had to get a lawyer and file motions for set schedules bc his ex won't let the kids come over most of the time and when they do my step son is an absolute monster. He talks like a baby, throws constant fits, needs constant attention, screams he hates us and just wants his mom, constantly screaming to go home to mom and ask when he gets to leave. We cannot do anything fun. It's completely miserable all day everyday. Christmas was even ruined by his behavior. I don't know what to do and to be honest I can't stand the kid anymore which makes me feel even worse, he wakes up and talks in a whiny baby voice and I'm instantly aggravated for the rest of the day. My marriage is suffering. We are always trying to get him to talk to us and say what he doesn't like so we can fix it and he can like coming over and he just screams "I don't know". An example of something that happens is; the kids were running in the house playing and yelling and they were told no running in the house then my stepson wants to start yelling back mom lets him run and dad is just mean. "Mom said to call her when you're mean so call her now". It's like the mother is bad mouthing at home or something I really don't know and I don't know what to do to make anything better at This point so if anyone has any advice it would be appreciated. His daughter loves me and we have no issues which is even more confusing, she will actually call me mom and we have so much fun and now that's an issue with my husband bc he thinks I treat her differently but the son literally doesn't care to do anything with me so I don't force myself, his daughter just took to me and we have a bond and I love her. Help.