The saga continues
DH has been trying very patiently to work out a week to week schedule with bm that works to both our families. DH tried to set up a meeting with her and ss to discuss it and BM said no. His next step was to make an appointment with the court appointed counselor but he found out she retired, so he tried again with BM giving her until Friday to respond.
well she just responded. It is so funny to me how these women try and control every aspect of the situation. DH has 50/50 legal and physical custody. Every decision made must be mutual but BM thinks she can just make up whatever rules she wants. She agreed to school pick ups but only as long as ss is limited to a back pack and a sports bag. Anything more and ss will have to be picked up Sunday night and if DH doesn’t agree then she will revoke the agreement.
it doesn’t work like that! She doesn’t get to decide. They have to work together per the co. DH responded that he was glad she compromised and that he would keep communication open regarding changing pick ups if school projects required ss to carry additional baggage but that he couldn’t commit to Sunday nights. I mean her “rules” are a little rigid! I’m sure I will be attackes for this post but I just get so tired of the fight. Why does it have to be her time and her day? Maybe Sunday afternoon would work better if a project comes up. Who the heck knows? Why doesn’t it have to be so black and white? Why can’t she just agree to work with DH whenever a change need to happen? Ugh! It gets old.