More morbid content -- Funerals cont.
So apparently I'm not the only one who has thought about what would happen if DH died and BM tried to crash the funeral or if BM died and DH went, but WHAT IF....
BM and a skid both died at the same time? :O
Yes, I've even gone this far with it in my own head.
Just to be clear about where I'm coming from on this (ie, BM is not a civilized human being and has never acted appropriately in public situations), I'm in the camp that says 1) BM will most definitely be banned from DH's funeral and 2) I would probably leave DH if he set foot in a place where people were "paying respects" to that miserable whore.
But what if BM and a skid were in a terrible accident and BOTH died? What would you want your DH to do? I have NEVER even come close to eluding to the death of one of his children to him so I've never asked him about this one (the other two scenarios, yes). As far as I am concerned DH, as the parent, would be responsible for making arrangements for his child but I would have a very hard time if those arrangements included the whore too. I know in normal situations of this sort, it would just be a given that a parent would be grieved and buried with the child but we aren't talking about a normal parent here. It's BM.
I would have to say that DH covers the skid's funeral but BM's clan is on their own with everything else and the two events have to be separate. I'm sure BM's church would have a mother/child service but whatever, we wouldn't be there for that.
As I typed this, I also thought of another scenario: DH and a skid die at the same time. Head spinning.