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Submitted by nofear74 on Fri, 05/01/2009 - 4:48pm

Sorry to end that last one so quickly, but I'm at work and was out of time. I can't get on this at home because my wife checks my history everyday, but that's another story altogether. I am just so scared of losing my wife, but I'm afraid that if I don't do something soon it's going to end badly for all of us. As far as the couples counseling, that hasn't worked either. I feel like I get blamed for EVERYTHING!!! Anyway, that you for the advice and anymore is greatly appreciated. I would be more than happy to talk to anybody who is going through that same situation as me. Please feel free to contact me. Take care all, and this site is wonderful!!!

Steve

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Fri, 05/01/2009 - 6:14pm

Of time thinking about whether or not you want to stay in this marriage. Unless you have been caught looking at porn or cheating, and it doesn't sound as though you've done either of those things, I don't think it's right of her to check your history like that. You aren't a kid- you're an adult. It is not appropriate of her to do that.

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Submitted by Anonymous2009 (not verified) on Fri, 05/01/2009 - 7:21pm

"I can't get on this at home because my wife checks my history everyday, but that's another story altogether."

This is classic abuse behavior. I get the fear of losing your marriage, but this woman has very clearly demonstrated that she feels no respect for you or your family.

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Submitted by Sunflower on Sat, 05/02/2009 - 4:03pm

I cant imagine the suffering you have been going through. I am so sorry for you and your son. IMHO I think you should take your child and split!! This is usually not what I would advise but for your W to verbally attack your son when your not around frightens me for his wellbeing.I think that you should sit down with W and talk very directly and ask her what does she want from your marriage. Tell her that what is going on now will destroy your relationship.If she values that she will be willing to get help (and really try) If not hunny move on save your son and yourself the mental abuse.There is no reason anyone should treat another person so cruely.Best of luck to you I hope that either way you find the happiness you deserve.

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Submitted by MSloan86 on Sat, 05/02/2009 - 8:18pm

ANd she checkes your internet history... I wonder if my wife had a twin taken away at birth. She isnt a redhead is she?