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Upcoming SD24 Wedding and I'm super stressed

Ljcapp1's picture

Ok so I've been the sole helper in this event which happens this Saturday. We have a lot to day and fortunately I am off work Thurs and Friday to set up.
SD is 6 months pregnant and she has Dr. appts and such in the next couple days along with wedding planning and prep.
I have a laundry list of stuff to do including babysitting GS5 while trying to make a backdrop and archway, picking up cake, champagne, flowers, and Gs5's outfit.
SD called me hysterical this morning bc Sasquatch will not return her calls. She has done nothing at all, not-one-thing to help. We are supposed to rehearse on Friday afternoon and Sasquatch can't make it. Sasquatch is matron of honor for God's sake.

This is how I feel about Sasquatch's shitty behavior right now. At least tell your daughter you don't wish to partake in any wedding set-up and decorating, etc. instead of not returning calls for the past 3 weeks.
I have a feeling all of this is because I have been helping SD. I only stepped in and did so much because Sasquatch backed out of everything she said she would do.
Anyway I have effing heartburn thinking about being trapped with that stupid bitch for an entire day Saturday.

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Cadence's picture

"I have a feeling all of this is because I have been helping SD."

Yup. What a lovely woman. Punishing her daughter for having a relationship with you.

Hopefully SD sees this. Hopefully SD is prepared to stand up for you when Sasquatch arrives at the wedding, taking full credit for all of it.

"At least tell your daughter you don't wish to partake in any wedding set-up and decorating, etc. instead of not returning calls for the past 3 weeks."

If she did that, then she couldn't properly punish her by fully twisting the knife and making SD worry and focus on her (via her absence). Duh! Wink

Does your husband recognize what is happening here?

Ljcapp1's picture

Cadence - My Husband is oblivious as usual :? :? :?

I told him I was afraid Sasquatch will get drunk and start shit with me, and instead of saying "I got your back babe." He said "you know how to deal with difficult people, just do what you would normally do."
He hurt my fucking feelings because Sasquatch and me go wayyyyyyy back with bitter feelings.

Cadence's picture

Does he see that Sasquatch is actively trying to psychologically harm his daughter? Where's his outrage?

Ljcapp1's picture

It's called head in the sand and don't upset Sasquatch or she will take you to court for more CS. That's how Sasquatch rolls.

Ljcapp1's picture

I agree it's goofy she asked her mom to be MOH. She asked me to replace Sasquatch as MOH and I politely declined as I'm the makeshift "planner." I've had a lot of fun with SD and we've actually really bonded over this wedding.
I mean I understand if she's not happy about the wedding or she's pissed that I'm helping but she can at least take some stress off her pregnant daughter.
Which is another thing...I can't wait for this baby!!! She's having a girl and it will be our first baby girl to dress up and stuff.

robin333's picture

How incredibly wonderful you are being for your SD. Definitely showing a classy, selfless example. I hope it works out and you have a great time!