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Parasitic BM is trying to invade my home!

littlegrlzx4's picture

OK folks, bear with me. Much rage, small keyboard, horrible, evil, manipulative BM!

She has no sense of boundaries whatsoever! Although there are several years of history that set me up for the heightened annoyance but in the last 24 hours, she has:

* Entered my home on the context that she wanted to see SD's redesigned bedroom. We went all out and gave her a loft, desk, cute decorations, etc. She LOVED it. BM came in to the house (which I hate!) looked at the room as if it were roadkill and said "Oh- that sure is interesting!" Of course, she lingered WAY too long on in front of the room, shooting glances at my bedroom right next door.

*Continually corrects MY children in front of me. "Oh sweetie, you said "shrunk", you meant to say "sunk"!" Who the hell cares- she's 5, my kid and I understand her!

* As she was parading around the house, scoops up the new cat in the house and gave a stream of advice on how we can better care of the cat.

* Emailed my DH alleging that my EX didn't pass on information regarding a school event and birthday party FOR MY DAUGHTER. (my kids and his kids go to school together so the Ex's bump into each other occassionally) She now feels that its her responsibility to police MY ex spouse any MY children's activities!

Ugh- she's hateful.

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FallingfromGrace's picture

I would have been livid. That is just completely unacceptable. We have a rule that BM does not leave the foyer(SP). I hate that fact that she even comes in here, but I would be pissed if she thought she could make herself at home! What does your DH say?

She has some major boundary issues.

Anne 8102's picture

Install a chain lock on your front door - ugly, I know, but maybe worth a little ugliness - and engage it when opening the door for her. When she arrives, open it a crack, see that it's her and say, "Oh, hello! Skid will be right out. Have a great day!" Then shut the door. If she asks what's up, simply state that you and DH have decided that your home is your sanctuary and you both agree it should be an ex-free zone. Problem solved.

~ Anne ~

"Love, having no geography, knows no boundaries."
(Truman Capote)

luvdagirl's picture

I refuse to let BM in the house she will be standing on the porch and that is as far as she gets!your home should be a safe haven and I agree that stopping her at the door is the best way to put BM back in her boundaries.

Chocoholic's picture

I can't believe the nerve of that 'woman'! I don't know how you refrained from knocking her ass out!

Cruella's picture

That will keep an evil BM away. No wait that is Dracula. Well in my situation I can't tell the difference between a blood sucking vampire and BM.
Some holy water can help. If not try some vodka.

goldenlife's picture

We stop BM at the CURB...she doesn't even get out of the car! Before we were married, she used to rummage through DH's house whenever she would pick up the kids and he was not home. He put a stop to her even coming on his property, so thankfully, those boundaries were already set!

Livin' my life like it's golden!

Catch22's picture

to pee on her, maybe she will have some advice to help stop that. LMAO...what a witch!!

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*