Bio-mom is putting Child Maintenance money before her own son.
He is 9 years old , he stays 3 days with his dad and 3 days with his mom and one day with his grandparents on his moms side.
The son himself has asked to stop staying at his granparents as he feels too old for staying and has asked to spend that one day alternating weekly between both parents.
Nothing is done through court and wont for a while as both of these parents are in serious debts. ( They're not divorced yet )
Looking for advice on how you would approach this matter outside of court. The dad has been telling his son to talk to his mom and ask for reasons but I myself don't think its great to get the child involved