How many of you co-parent?
By that i mean,
Share your opinion on their behaviour? Get involved if they misbehave? Chat and trying to keep a good relationship. Getting involved willingly with picking/dropping off alterations? Buying them gifts or anything they're lacking.
If anything ive learnt from this site is to DISengage, get little involvement. But it's hard not to sometimes.
My learnt mistakes:
What have some of you done to fight child maintenance when you've not agreed with it ?
We have ss more than 174 nights which categorised us in the 4th column of paying less than 100 and I could say we have him 50/50.However maintenance have to validate it to the other bio parent. Which they are denying and even lied to get it to increase.
Salary is also taken in consideration but you know when you're paying too much.
Bio-mom is putting Child Maintenance money before her own son.
He is 9 years old , he stays 3 days with his dad and 3 days with his mom and one day with his grandparents on his moms side.
The son himself has asked to stop staying at his granparents as he feels too old for staying and has asked to spend that one day alternating weekly between both parents.