Keep STBX/SS on my insurance?
My health benefits at work are fully paid for myself and all of my dependents. Because STBX was ordered to provide insurance for SS, I just put him on my policy because it costs me nothing. SS has had a few health issues, but nothing too troublesome. I have had to make two or three calls to the insurance company to straighten minor issues out, but there hasn't really been much of an problem.
Now that we are splitting, obviously I spoke to STBX about this matter. I let him know that I will keep SS (and him) on my policy until July 1, but at that point I am going to remove them both. BB knows that it's my insurance and she has already approached STBX about adding SS to her own policy, that she'll figure out how much exra it is and that would be added to his CS every month. STBX has SS about 40% of the time and he still pays almost $900/mo in CS. I honestly don't know how he will afford an extra $100 or so nor do I believe that he should have to. Honestly, I believe that STBX should go in and ask for a reduction, but thankfully this is no longer my business.
Anyway, so STBX has asked that I keep them both on my policy indefinitely. I have no reason not to, other than the fact that it seems dishonest to me. Also, if something major happened to either of them, there could be issues if it's ever discovered that they are not dependents/do not live with me (and there is no order that obligates me to provide benefits for either). I don't want to be a bitch, and STBX doesn't get why I don't want to do this. Any advice? I know that if it were him, STBX would provide insurance for DD and I if we asked.