Big steps on DH letting go!
DH had to make a decision on holiday leave- He decided not to take it. He will just work over the Christmas/New Years time, he is going to take Thanksgiving instead.
He is going to apply to go to Iceland (OMG!!!) but if they won't let him leave the country because of COVID we are going to take a trip to Gatlinburg, TN- which I LOVE in the fall! Either way, I am a happy lady!!
SS won't respond to DH, so we are just taking that as a no and letting go. This is HUGE for both of us, even though it doesn't seem like a big deal. It still feels a little like turning you back on your kid, but he will be 17- so how much longer can we call him a kid? We have to let it go.
DH said that this will also be the catalyst for whether or not we pay anything for his college. I am really proud of DH on this.
We know he won't willingly show, so this will break DH's heart, but it has to be done.