No children and considering a man with children?
You're thinking of marrying or living with a man who already has children-you don't have any. Don't be stupid. It will not work (for all the various and sordid reasons you're reading about in this site), that is unless the man has little children whose mother has died and maternal and paternal grandparents and aunts and uncles aren't in the picture, much. Most are in the picture and have developed protective roles as a result of the kiss's mother dying. Also keep in mind that even if relatives aren't in the picture, that dad has been filling both the role of dad and mom and will probably be hesitant to give up the reigns. You think you can handle this, but you will regret to decision to let yourself follow your heart. Remember that your heart is not your brain. Save yourself both mental and physical agony and find the strength to break it off now. You probably won't, though, because you probably wouldn't be on this site if you weren't already in deep and already in some agony. But in the slim chance you just wandered onto the site and aren't already caught up with a man with children...take heed, lest you fall!