I love my DH I truly due. He is kind, gentle, romantic, a good lover and my best friend.

He is also an IDIOT!!!

BM and SD18 are in jail. Will remain in jail because BM's family has finally come to the realization that bailing these two out of their problems only a) costs the family money they do not get back and b) enables/encourages these two's behaviors.

So since Sat/Sun everyone has been on the same page. No one on either side of the family will be bailing SD18 out (and BM's family refuses to bail her out) of jail. They get to sit in jail and LEARN their lesson (that one does have to follow the law/ court orders).

So last night after the kids are in bed DH wants to talk. Prelude to the conversation was: "I've been thinking". He only opens with that line if he has been thinking and he knows darn good and well what he has been thinking about is stupidity to the nth degree!!

Condensing a 2 hour arguement into 1000 words or less: SD18 has been calling collect every day and talking to darling daddy. (He was told the phone bill is his to pay since those collect calls are nearly $8.00 a minute!). She has been playing the poor pitiful me card and dumbass was falling for it.

In one breath he tried telling me she learned her lesson and was going to move back in with us... :? Then she didn't learn her lesson since there is ANOTHER COURT ORDER that states she is NOT to live IN THIS HOUSE. Not to mention it is MY HOUSE and I FORBID her from living here.

I gave DH an ultimatum. He could grab his sack, man up and let the law teach her what HE FAILED TO DO OVER 18 years!! Or he could move the f*ck out and go live with her (sd18). But I was keeping the rest of the skids with me. I would not stand and watch him and BM screw them up any worse than they already had especially since the three younger kids are doing GOOD!