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BM can't stand being with her kids SO SAD!

justanothergurlNJ's picture

Small vent, BF called the boys last night. I really hate when he does this, I know he wants to talk to them and all, but the Twat Waffle ALWAYS seems to have some excuse to get her nasty ass on the phone GRRR. Last night it was does your Mom have any plans on seeing the boys this weekend? Translated into last weekend was your weekend and I am looking to dump my kids off some where. She has not spent a weekend with these boys since the middle of May. I can’t for the life of me understand how a Mom who works FT doesn’t want to spend time with their young children. My kids are 11 and 14 and unless I am spending money on them they are for the most part out with there friends. I used to love spending time with them when they were small. I wish I could turn back time and take them places like the zoo, or Land of Make Believe or a water park. Anywho BFs answer was I don’t know! WTF are you kidding, why not day why are you asking me call MY MOTHER! SMFH.

This bitch just pisses me off

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justanothergurlNJ's picture

I guess it wouldn't be so bad if she dumped them on her family but it is ALWAYS BFs Mom, she also can't go any where or da anything with them unless she has another adult. They are 5 and 7.

3familiesIn1's picture

This is the BM of the skids too. She does whatever she can to avoid spending long periods of time with them. She works FT as well, she ensures they are fed and clean but otherwise she avoids them. Its pathetic.

On top, since DH knows this, this isn't a new thing, she was like this since birth of the skids - why have a second one - I mean really - but anyway - DH is there to suck up any additional time he can - we are already 50-50 - I say FORCE BM to be a mother. She birthed 2 kids - come on man.

I have 2 bios - I can't understand it either.

justanothergurlNJ's picture

We do force her, but his Mom is so afraid if she says no she won't let her see the boys. Yup that's all she does, feeds them, clothes them and baths them. Then she forces them to bed before they are ready or lets them run wild around the house, as long as they are not in her hair and she can play online with her fake friends on her Mommy websites or stalk me on FB. There is no down time or quality time spent after school and work and the weekends they are shipped off to us or BFs Mom. SO sad