Super fun weekend...yeah right!
DH was off this weekend which doesn't happen a lot with his job. Friday night we went to a sporting event...SD11 and her little posse of 2 friends were there running wild, not sitting down for more than 10 mintues at a time and spent $40 and still wanted more.
They both spent the night along with SD11's sister who stayed the weekend with us as BM was out of town. SD11 and one the other girls (but SD mostly) laughed, screamed, and yelled until wee hours of the morning right in the next room (living room/kitchen) to our bedroom because she refused to sleep in her own room and made a big mess in the kitchen which DH kinda half ass cleaned up and left the rest thinking I would do it when I got home from work on Saturday but I was so mad that he didn't make those bloody girls clean up after themselves (after he repeatedly told them to clean up they mess) that I didn't clean anything...dishes piled up, huge mess of clutter, spilled stuff on the floor, and OUR bathroom a wreck.
SD11's sister asked me to cut her hair that afternoon which I don't mind doing at all. As I am working on the haircut, SD11 kept saying how her sister's hair was not even and that it didn't look any different than before (mind you I cut at leat 6 inches off). Not sure if SD11 was jealous of her sister getting attention or just being the mean hateful little animal that she is but she 'asks' me while I am right in the middle of cutting her sister's hair in a rude tone "uh don't you need to be making dinner???" Are you F***ing serious! DH wasn't in the room to hear her but it probably wouldn't have mattered anyway, he is so afraid of making her mad so he wouldn't have said anything. Hell he doesn't even get upset when that hateful little kid of his blatenly disrespects and tells him NO when he tells her to do something. SD asked me if I liked it when all these people were there...what a strange question to ask huh? I wonder if she wants to have this constant chaos just because she knows how uncomfortable it makes me in my own home.
I really don't like the all weekend slumber parties with these loud abnoxious little "forever 5 year olds"...it hasn't happened in a while so I didn't say anything but everything has to be over the top. One of the girls stayed till late Sunday. These kids won't eat what is made at regular mealtime and expect an all day buffet of junk food. I have a grown daughter and stepdaughter and I actually enjoyed having their friends over when they were that age...they were fun to be around, didn't take over the whole house and didn't expect me to be the maid. I don't know maybe as I have gotten older, my patience has worn thin or maybe these girls are way over the top.
If any of you have a BD or SD this age, let me know if all this normal or these kids are just annoying and obnoxious more than usual. It has been a while since my daughter or SD has been 11-12) I would really like to know!