In the past few days...DH has went from being in the top ten to being the king when it comes to catering to, coddling, and being obsessed with his daughter more than ever. SD11 has been up his ass more than usual (not going to friend's houses as much, being a little bit nicer to him than usual and reverting to her 5 yr personality as much as possible)...this behavior has certainly made her father as happy as can be and I'm thinking this is a ploy to milk it for Christmas...maybe I'm wrong. It is really hard to see the good in her...as a matter of fact, I would really have to think about it if someone asked that question.

I honestly have worried about DH's sanity sometimes...lol but seriously...he called me and asked what I was making for dinner and I told him...he happily stated that SD11 will love that. :?
She has never eaten it in the past...never eats anything we have to dinner except on rare occasion or its takout. Now why all of a sudden is she going to eat tonight? Another example is that SD11 is very forgetful, reckless, and destructive. If something isn't tied to her, she will lose it...I bet she has lost her cell phone in excess of 10 times. DH and I were talking about the kids starting driving and he said...SD11 will be a great driver! I told him maybe when she can find her keys...then he started talking shit about my son. This dude lives a true fantasy. He also said that SD11 is going to be a cheerleader when she gets to high school :jawdrop: ...now this is a girl who is shy in public and doesn't have enough commitment or dedication to anything to even feed her animals...every extra curricular activity she starts at school she quits.

See what I mean...this is why I question his sanity at times. It is perfectly normal to protect your child or to see the good in people but this is totally out there... complete denial. Scary for him and scary for our whole family. What if SD11 gets mad and makes up a story about me or my son. There would be no defense on my behalf. We would be homeless.