We’ve had a wonderful weekend and it’s just getting better.
Friday we were at the movies when the kids’ mom calls. When we get back to the car he has multiple missed calls. He messages her and she ignores it and calls him scream about how he didn’t pick up the children.
Of course he didn’t. He sent her a screenshot of the text message where she said he couldn’t have them.
Then apparently Saturday while I was at work he had to turn off his phone because she was calling him from every single number she could trying to demand he come pick up the kids because boyfriend decided he didn’t want to keep them.
We have an agreement between us that if she refuses to let him have the kids at the start of a visit he doesn’t go bail her out. She used to do this a lot to try and control him. She’d say he couldn’t have them for whatever reason then demand he come get them if she found out we had plans. I can’t tell you how many screenshots of our dates got included in divorce paperwork trying to show him as a bad father because he wouldn’t get the children. Thankfully my boyfriend wasn’t stupid and kept the messages showing she would refuse him time with the kids.
Anyways you’d think that was the end of it but nope. Apparently the youngest couldn’t even make it 5 minutes into the week before being sent to the principle because of biting AGAIN. This is at least the 5th time he’s hurt another student that we know of. After the last one my boyfriend got a call saying they wouldn’t be allowing this to continue but the kids mom doesn’t want to talk to him other than to blame him. She claims he doesn’t help her with parenting so why should she listen to him. Surely the school can see where the issue is? She can’t just keep blaming us when she has them throughout the school week. Sure she can blame the situation but it’s not our fault if she can’t get him to behave when she has him.
I knew this whole “co-parenting” would fall apart soon. She does it when its convenient for her then blames my boyfriend for everything that goes wrong.