Parenting is hard... or ... lying
My husband and I have provided a phone for my SD for the last several years. But suddenly (I’m assuming after a large paycheck) BM and SF (Napoleon) got her a second phone without telling us or providing us the phone number. I know this due to data usage etc. My question is do we say anything to SD11? I know she has been told to keep it a secret because when asked she has lied. My issue isn’t with the phone it is the lying. And then last night I get a text from Napoleon telling me I am only allowed to text SD and will be removed from her instagram etc. to refresh your memory I have been around for 10 years... this guy 2.5. So needless to say I’m fuming about that. Any parenting advice is appreciated. I just don’t want this kid to develop the habit of lying on behalf of her mother.