Just how spoiled is SD16?
She got a job at a fast food restaurant. She is not happy. hahaha.
BM helped her put in three applications and she only got the fast food one. BM is making her take it too! Go BM. SD is also not happy because BM is trying to teach her responsibility by making her put part of her check in savings another part goes for car insurance for SD and the rest is for SD. Next she is pushing hard for SD to finally get her license.
Remember folks, this is the same SD that failed the drivers test 3 times, then mommy wrote out flash cards for her to study. She's had her permit for over a year now and still no drivers license. This is also the same girl that got upset when daddy said no car for you because she got bad grades and lied (along with BM) to him about it. Then somehow got BM to call him and ask if he'll buy her a car or pay to add her to BM's car insurance. LOL
I asked SO if she's still dating that boy. His response. "I don't think so. That boy actually has his shit together. He gets good grades, involved in sports and he works." Do we have a crack in our rose colored glasses there, dear?
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BWA HAHAHAHA! I know this
BWA HAHAHAHA!
I know this won't last and she'll go back to being poor SD again, but I'm just going to take it for today.
I'm sure she'll quit. Although SO seems to think BM won't let her. I think BM is in for a fight. SD flat out tantrums when forced to do something she doesn't like. Yes, at 16.
oooh we played that game
oooh we played that game already two years ago. NEVER.HAPPENING.AGAIN
Two years ago, mom was so mean all the time and didn't let sd do anything. She didn't take care of them well blah blah
Poor SD! She moved in with us for much of the summer and two months of the school year. After 2 months of private school (and $12,000) she says "I want to move back in with mom. I miss my friends"
Of course, no real thought given to anyone's feelings, money or work to get her into an excellent, safe school.
Just oh nevermind, its not what I thought it was.
Yes it is. This is why I stay
Yes it is. This is why I stay away. I don't care what she says, does, as long as its not involving any hardship to me or my money. Her mom and dad can deal with what they created.
Good grief!!! Maybe there's
Good grief!!! Maybe there's still hope for my idle SD17 - who is hoping to be getting my car but only if she gets a p/t job to pay the running costs. How long do you expect SD16 to keep the job?
Mind you - it'll be a cold day in hell before NPD BM gets her act together to pay the car insurance as per agreement with DH. I expect to have my car for a LONG time to come. I wish NPD BM would badger SD17 to get a job. Can't see it, though. It would also get her out of our hair at weekends
I don't see SD doing it for
I don't see SD doing it for long. Couple of months AT MOST. My feeling is that she'll do it for a few weeks and then start on BM with why she shouldn't be working there. Its too hard, the manager is mean, her typical its everyone else's fault strategy. If BM doesn't buy in to it, then will come the tantrum. I imagine SD will just stop telling BM what her schedule is and not go in until she gets fired.
It is a nice though to have her away for some weekends. I have been lucky, the last two she didn't come because SO is still mad about the grades and SD lying about it all again.
Don't you just hate that
Don't you just hate that "it's everyone else's fault" thing? NPD BM and her daughters are total masters of this. SD17 wouldn't get on a bus with her school mates on Saturday, insisted on DH driving her the 25 miles to the event, because she "didn't like" the other school mates on the bus - they are "mean to me" wah wah wah!!. I would have MADE her get the bus - but DH didn't find out there WAS a bus till they were half way there.
Yes! I have no tolerance for
Yes! I have no tolerance for the victim mentality. It drives me nuts. When I hear it spewing from her, I have to leave wherever I am that is in earshot of her, so I can recover.
BM does this too. Everything is everyone else's responsibility. Lazy. SD is lazy. SO always says how much SD is like him, lately he is seeing some BM qualities in her. BM is fine with settling in to life and doing nothing challenging. SD is the same. No goals, no pushing, just whatever takes little effort. All without me pointing it out.
BM told SS13 he can't go to the gym to practice sports during the week because "stepdad said it was too much for him to take you 3 times a week"
Really? Why is it stepdad's responsibility? He's your kid. My guess is stepdad didn't mean for SS to not go, he just didn't want to be the one having to take him all the time. BM should have a turn. Lazy.