seems like alot of women here lately are ending their relationships....
I know I am on that path as well. Going to a therapist tomorrow and try to figure whats going on in my head and heart and how my H will ever get it through his skull that this is going to happen whether he really wants it to or not... It still sucks though, I feel bad for hurting him, and knowing that I had it pretty easy in the step family department, bm was the only psycho one at times. H is not a guilty daddy, he actually parents, and bm parents sometimes.
and after all this, I will have learned alot. I am too young (my personal opinion for myself) to be married; atleast I married too young to the wrong person. The signs were there but since it was my first serious relationship (as in, living together and such) I was severely blinded. things he did to me I will not put up with again. and I will know how to act and how to be a better wife to the next SINGLE NO KIDS NO BM'S man.
I will miss sd though 
she's such a doll and I hope H doesn't go crazy and try to hurt me after I figure out how to go about all this. He knows that im not happy and that im not in love with him anymore and that i've been thinking about divorce. So the shock shouldn't be as bad anymore...
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Just biding my time here as
Just biding my time here as well. I have recently come to the conclusion that Godsgift is looney toons. I don't know whether it was the stress of having his ex-wife PAS out his kids, his non-realization that he's a guilty daddy or what.
I read a passage on PAS that says that the targeted parent often appears to have severe emotional disturbances (usually brought on by the CP biomom's targeting)
He is still living in a dream world and thinks his kids will turn out all right. Totally ignoring the red flags of their imminent doom. Don't want to be around when the oldest two become 18 and 16 respectively.
Just trying to save up more
Just trying to save up more and find a place here, as well.
Although things are better between NN and I than they have been in a LONG time - maybe a year. Before, I would have clutched onto this with frantic hope that we could make things work. Now, I think that it is just one of those "honeymoon stages" that I've read about...
And I don't want to stick around until it gets bad again...I want to be gone before I hate him.
I think many women here have
I think many women here have realized what their limit is by reading the things posted.In a way this place helps women see their self worth and the fact that they're worth more than what they've gotten from their husbands and skids.Break ups are never positive at first and I don't support leaving a marriage if you haven't made an honest effort to fix things but once the efforts have been made and you see things aren't getting better then by all means GO!Find a better life and find a better way of living.Let the husband and skids drown in their own misery while you get a fresh perspective on what it means to live your life in happiness.I love the people who criticize others for getting out of a situation that has become unfixable.the so called 'protectors of the sanctity of marriage'.Yes lets brush everything under the mat and continue living life pretending everything is ok.That crap didn't work for women ages ago when they really couldn't leave and it certainly doesn't work for women today especially because we have more options now.
To stay in a bad situation is thumbing your nose at the women of the past who fought and sacrificed so much so women of today could have rights and freedom from men.