So, What DO you DO with the CRAZY???
DH and I recently went away for a week. In preparation for the trip, I asked DH to make sure the skids could not use the garage code to get into the house. DH assured me that the code had limited access use and that DH used the last one.
So yesterday, skids come into the house using the garage door code. BM had picked them up from school and brought them to our home with their bags and sports equipment for their visit. I went fucking ballistic :jawdrop:
I was so angry and my mind was spinning, I couldn't sleep last night. So I ended up writing down all the things and I'm sure there is more, of what this crazy fucking bitch has done to me through words or actions.
1. Told the kids I am trying to “replace their mother”. (2006)
2. Told the kids to not hug or kiss me. (2007)
3. Told the kids to not say “I love you” to me.(2007)
4. Told the kids that I bribe them. (2010)
5. Has thrown away every item that I have given the kids. (anytime)
6. Has purchased coal for me, for the kids to give to me for Christmas. (2010)
7. Left messages on DH's voice mail telling him that I need to stay out of her children’s lives and attend to my own (2006).
8. Has taught the kids to say that my cooking smells or is disgusting. (on going)
9. Kids no longer will eat what is made or sit and have a dinner with us. (on going)
10. Has taught the kids to say that I am fat to my face. (2006 thru 2011)
11. Found BM standing in the living room of our home (6-21-2006).
12. Builder’s for the addition stated to me that BM was on the property, apparently posing as “Mrs. HadEnough”. (2006)
13. BM came over to the house and allowed the children ages 7,6 and 5 to step all over woodwork that was being stained by BM's sister. BM came over twice that day while we were at a festival and toured the inside of our home. (2006)
14. BM was found standing in our family room in 2006 by DH's oldest son (different mother). DH and I were not home.
15. BM was found sitting on an ottoman in our family room in 2010. DH found her there.
16. November 2012, I found an envelope of pre-written checks, on the tile floor in our family room, placed well inside the room, facing right side up and print facing so it could be read standing over it.
17. Has lied about diagnosis of pink- eye, in which I then contracted. Diagnosis was confirmed by pediatrician. (2010)
18. Has told the children to not acknowledge me at anytime. Confronted BM about one incident in 2008.
19. Bought Christmas pins for DH, the kids and herself for an event, deliberately excluded me. (2006)
20. Baked cupcakes, enough for DH and 3 kids, deliberately excluded me. (2007)
21. Our home was toilet papered by PAS'd SD12 and her friends. (2010)
22. American flag and Support Our Troops ornaments stolen from front yard, (Summer 2012, trial was Aug. 2012)
23. Tried to “shock” me with medical information regarding DH. (2006)
24. Has spoken about the “many” women DH dated before me, I'm just one of them.
25. Has spoken that DH wanted to be back with BM, while married to me.
26. BM tried to have a quote from transcript as a court order to have me “back off”
27. Stated in court while it was not in session that “she’s not suppose to be involved” (Turning around and looking at me)
28 Has ruined my relationship with SD, through lies, manipulation and deceit.
29. Has placed nails under my tires, my children’s tires and a friends tires by using her children, her brother or her own self. (9/2010 to 6/2013)
30. SD cracked my camper roof in two places (2011)
31. Told the court that “he has to live with her”, meaning DH had to deal with me.
32. Had the kids reciting “your not a part of our family” (2006 thru 2011)
33. Invited Baby Daddy #2 and DH to SD's award ceremony in school, deliberately excluded me (2012)
34. Has electronically noted in the children’s medical file that I can not bring or make appointments for the children and has the pediatrician’s office call her if I do. (2013) She has no medical rights for the skids, she lost them 2yrs ago!
35. Does not allow the kids to have my contact information in their cell phone. (2013)
36. Has kids stop attending church and church functions because of my involvement in the church. (ongoing)
37. Had SD tell me that "when Daddy divorces you…." (2007)
38. BM gave DH a digital picture frame as a Christmas gift from the "skids" with pictures of her holding the skids after their birth. (2006)
39. Called DH up saying I dropped off the skids bags in a pile of snow and a plow came bye and covered the bags. BM said she had to shovel the bags out. ( A LIE)
40. BM dropped off shoes to our home and left them in our living room (2013)
41. BM got Mini to have the therapist design a contract that prohibits DH from shares any information with me about their sessions. (2014)
42. BM lied in court that she had NEVER been inside my home. (2014)
43. BM rented a movie under DH's address and failed to return it. No notification until the bill went into collections. (2008)
44. BM and SD have called the police and had a DCF investigation.
45. The SUV is getting keyed. (2014)
8 years of this fucking crap! I told DH that if he can't understand WHY I want my house locked up when we are gone and the skids are to not have access, then I can stay home on trips. If I'm the one with "the problem" then I can stay home and keep the house secure.
DH isn't happy, but neither am I.