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So Tired of Mini Me Being Around

HadEnoughx5's picture

Next month Mini Me graduates from High School. Some miracle happened and she got into a college out of state. I am so freaking thrilled that come the end of August the little bitch will be gone!

Until then it has just sucked. Its exactly like I thought it would be with DH and SD. After years of BM's influence in alienating her from us and causing the worst chaos and hell anyone could go through, SD is practically kissing Daddy's ass.

Suddenly she wants a relationship with him, pay her college bills etc. Of course he's taking it all in too. He took her to colleges for tours and got into one of the ones he had taken her to. SD got a lot of scholarship monies and reduced her tuition to about 12k a year. What pisses me off is BM had custody of SD college fund that had 56k in it. BM spent all the money on a Lincoln Aviator and boobs.

To top it all off, DH agrees with SD that he will pay her tuition! I said to him... BM has the money and your willing to just pay 48k to SD? He's near retirement and has two more heading into college within the next 3 years.

I'm just so upset with this whole thing.

Last night I went to a game to see SS14 play and when I got there of course SD sat next to Daddy. The only reason she did that was because she's meeting DH for breakfast at 9 to have him sign papers for college.

I'm so angry and hurt by this.

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HR By Profession's picture

I would be crazy frustrated to. I guess I just don't get how guilt makes some guys completely blind to common sense. My DH can be like that on occasion as well. The child has a college fund. Use it!!!!

pinkb's picture

Hadenoughx5... I feel your pain. Minus the account spent on a car and boobs, we had the same thing. Except, DH took a pay cut, then lost his job, and has been employed on and off since. Guess who'd paying for most of tuition?

Don't let this happen to you.