Is it all over?
This is the first time I have posted although I have been a member for a while. I live with my gf and her kids in a house I bought. I moved cities so SD12 didn’t have to move schools, I pay all the bills as well. My skids are often rude to me, blanking me when I talk to them, talking to me like I am stupid, SS19 had a year off between finishing school and going to uni, he was away for 3 months and spent time with his dad but basically refused to get a proper job. He had a job but would only have a shift once a week. If he was pushed on why he didn’t get a proper job he would go storming off in a huff, he would leave the kitchen a mess every single day and I would often end up clearing it up, he would be rude when I talked to him. He was getting a substantial about of money each month from his dad. He paid some money to my gf but I never received any rent towards the cost of the house. He once shoved his younger sister off a ledge in the garden and for me a 19 year old physically lashing out at a 12 year is a big deal. SD 12 can be really moody, constantly talking to me like I’m an idiot, going in massive huffs about nothing (which I know comes with being 12) but at the same time being super OTT with my gf ‘I love you so much, you’re the best mummy’. SD went to her dads for a week today and as soon as she was gone we got in an argument which is pretty much the same as previous argument. Me saying the kids are rude and disrespectful and it is not up to me to support a now adult who is too lazy to get a job and her getting upset because I don’t love them and don’t just forgive their behaviour. We can’t keep doing this. She is right I don’t like them, most people don’t like people that rude to them. But I think this time it might be it.