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No medical coverage for skids now because of BM

Glassslipper's picture

BM wrote about a month ago, let us know her insurance coverage and premium was changing and the new options were horrible.

She said we need to look at options, so DH and I got our information and BM showed us her new information but had 2 weeks worth of issues getting her SO's information to us to see.

Then says she can't get a letter yet showing that coverage is ending (needed to switch during non-open enrollment times)
She asks what Dh's opinion is for coverage and he says, Mine seems like the best choice.

a week goes by.

She then emails again: "what is your opinion on coverage"
Again DH says "mine"
And off crazy goes on her verbal abusive, "you left me" schizophrenic rampage for the rest of the night and all the next day. In between mental break downs you could gather some information about what she was raging about.
She was trying to say that the "monthly" cost of her SOs insurance was 20.00 cheaper a month, and she didn't want DH to insure the kids because SO's wasn't the "cheapest"
HOWEVER, it was NOT the "cheapest".
Bm's SO has a HUGE deductible, 10,000+
DH's premium was 20.00 more a month but its only 500.00 out of pocket deductible.
The truth behind the situation is that SO's kid was also on the insurance so they could bill his ex for half and DH for half and not pay a dime, that's why they wanted to have the skids on BM's SO's insurance.
So through all the fits of rage and control and abuse, the letter of loss of coverage FINALLY comes, 48 hours before the coverage ends.
So now DH has 24 hours to add the skids to his insurance? He is doing all he can but seriously BM!
NICE JOB DROPPING THE BALL BM!
Better be careful this month, you just left your kiddos without insurance because you couldn't pull your bitter abusive controlling rampage together enough to provide for your kids.
That's classy!

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Glassslipper's picture

yes, and she wanted to put really crappy coverage on her kids so that she could bill her half of the premium to her SO's ex.
Then she doesn't even transfer the letter to DH till 48 hours before the kids coverage ends!
No MOTY award for her this year!

askYOURdad's picture

Is your dh even able to enroll them? Doesn't it have to be open enrollment? I didn't know bm stupidity was a qualifying event lol

Glassslipper's picture

IT should be a qualifying event! lol
I used to think she was all drama and abuse, but the more and more things come to light, I think she is actually stupid, just completely CLUELESS and she uses the manipulation and abuse to cover up her stupidity!

He can enroll them as long as he has proof of loss of benefits, which BM didn't give us till LESS THAN 48 hours ago!