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Fedupmama's picture

What is the point of a parenting order if it isn't even followed? Switch is for Mondays after school, or around 3-4pm. I have plenty to do today with juggling my 2 young ones already. I go upstairs to put my hair up and come downstairs to find Skids on the couch, they have taken over the main TV to play video games from BD who was watching her cartoons. It's noon. I'm just irritated. Dad's not even here as he is at work. Don't you have a TV and Xbox at your mom's? I know you do. But just come over here and disrupt my plans for the day, make a mess. I'm not even given a heads up. Anyone else love not being consulted on things in their life like this? 

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Thisisnotus's picture

Same here! It sucks. DH and BM have a super detailed agreement and it's never once been followed in 4 years.

even Holidays are clearly and maticulously outlined....but every mother effing Holiday is a disaster.

Fedupmama's picture

Preteens. Their mother moved a few blocks away from us. They just walk or ride their bikes over and come in the garage. 

We have 3 tv's in the house. But they always sit in the main living room and watch the same shows they've seen every episode too. Older ss is literally sitting on his iPhone on the couch with headphones on with his show on the TV. Que the fighting and yelling with the younger ones. I have to move furniture from the basement today as a room is getting redone down there this week. And I was hoping to do it BEFORE THEY CAME OVER. I guess that just doesn't matter anymore. 

Fedupmama's picture

I also need to get paper work done today, was planning on doing that during their nap. The younger ones fall right out of their schedule when the older ones come over, understandable due to the excitement of their company.