I just need to vent about BM's!!
I have to say that sometimes it wears on me not only how much BM can get away with but how many resources they have available to them.
Just because a woman can give birth, does not make her a good mom!
I am so tired of people beating up fathers and always looking at them with such judgment. My BF let SD7 move to Georgia with BM because we knew we did not have a fighting chance of winning in court, not to mention that we are both in college full time. Do you think anyone supports him? Do you think anyone believes he is a good dad? No.
Guess what? Dads are AWESOME and every kid needs one in their life. He talks to his daughter 3x a week, sends her packages every week and spends every christmas, summer and spring break with her.
I am so tired of hearing about how much BM's hate it when their kids choose to go live with their dad! Are you kidding me!?! How about you realize that this child needs to know both of their parents, especially if both are actively involved.
Dads deserve what you do to! So stop whining about how much you miss them, when you just expect dads to deal! Stop accusing long distance dads of being bad parents, especially when it was not their choice. I would dare to say that more than not, just because a parent is in the same home, it does not make them close to their kids.
UGH. I am so frustrated with the system and with BM who think they deserve the world.
I hope that one day we recognize the importance of fathers.