Son's Crazy BM
So my oldest son was super smart and had a baby with his crazy ex-girlfriend. She is 23 and has 3 babies by 3 daddies. Grandson is the middle child who is now two. She recently married her newest baby daddy. I though that would calm her down but nope!
I've helped son put up boundries but now that's backfiring one me! He set up the communication app and blocked her on everything else so she can't harrass him when she wants so now she messaged me anytime he doesn't answer. Normally I ignore or if my son is around I'll tell him to check the app. I pick up my grandson alot on the weekends and have him spend the night so I try to be nice and keep it corgial so she doesn't flip out and withhold him since she's done that a few times in the last two years.
Last night I hit my breaking point. At 1am she send me a text asking when the local pool was going to be open and how much membership was going to be. WTH!!!! She knows I work 8-5 M-F so why would you text me at 1am to ask about a pool?!?!? Thankfully my phone was on vibrate but when I got up this morning and saw the text I finally told her do not text me after 11PM unless it is an emergency. I'm sure she'll withhold grandson a few weekends because I dared say something to her but oh well!
I though I was done with crazy BM's once all our kids became adults!