I am officially back!!!! My vaca was AWESOME!!!!
OMG my son and i had such a wonderful time. It was relaxing, totally stress free. We went para sailing, I had a hot stone massage, my son went on a bannana boat twice, we went swimming with dolphins, snorkling, it was the best!!! Mostly we sat by the pool and on the beach. There was no agravation, no BULLSHIT!!!!! OMG much needed.
Then I came home!!!!! NEED I SAY MORE!!!!! SD16 was sleeping, thank god. We came in around 1am yesterday. So the drama started this morning. I didnt have to be at work till this afternoon so i took SD to school. She woke up made her breakfast, I sat and had my coffee while I read the paper and then looked at the time and said ready to go? She looked at me and said "your taking me to school?" Yep i am....She said "GREAT!!!" guess your back now....I am kid, I am back with a smile on my face and she just rolled her eyes. i dropped her off while she didnt say 2 words to me then got out of the car. I rolled down the window and said "SD, SD, she turned and I said with a smile have a great day!!!!! Whatever was her responce.
On my vacation I decided to come back with a new outlook....I am done getting agravated with a child that is not mine. i will not be going out of my way for her what so ever. And if I can ignore her as much as possible that is what i intend to do.
My son and my family had such a great 9 days i can not even describe it. All I can say is it was an AMAZING, relaxing, awesome trip.....ready to plan the next one!!!!!