I talked to my exH yesterday when we attended one of my bios' activities. Luckily, stbSM wasn't there so I was able to bring it up. I told him that I was concerned that she was displaying violent behavior in front of the kids. I also told him that my DS11 was scared to talk to exH about it, which is a problem.

My exH was very apologetic. He told me that he knew it was a major problem. He said that he understood that he should have called me and gotten the kids to come to my house, but he was somewhat embarrassed about the whole thing. He also told me not to worry, as it will not happen again and that he has resolved the situation.

I was confused by this until I talked to DS11 last night. He told me that stbSM has been staying with a friend. So I am not sure where this leaves things.

I get my bios for three weeks, starting in two days. Hopefully, things will have settled down before they go back to their dad's house.