Can I do anything to stop this psycho?
I am not sure if this is really the place for this blog, but I need some advice. And, it does involve a step situation. I have written about my ExH's girlfriend. She is the one who hit one of my children and was verball abusive to them and my exH. The woman is fu##ing crazy.
Recently, my exH decided to end the relationship with her and forced her to move out of his house. This started an entire series of events. She started texting, calling and messaging me on Facebook. She would spew these horrible, disgusting comments about my exH, me, and the kids. She would try to cajole me into talking bad about my exH with her. When I refused to do this, she became even more threatening. Finally, I blocked her from being able to contact me. Luckily, she doesn't have my email so it's been easy to keep her from contacting me.
The problem is that my DS12 is terrified of this woman. He thinks she is psychotic and is going to hurt him or his dad. Right after she moved out, there was an incident where she snuck in the house in the middle of the night and started screaming/throwing things around my exH's house. My kids were both there and it scared them. He told her to leave and she did. So he changed the locks and made sure all windows were locked so she couldn't get back inside.
However, she came back two nights ago. My kids were there again. Apparently, she programmed the garage door opener into her SUV so she opened the garage door and was able to come in through the mud room. My exH woke up to her standing over his bed. Apparently, she was just standing there, staring at him and taking pics of him with her cell phone. He jumped up and told her to get out of his house or he was calling the police. She smashed his cell phone and kicked him. My exH has some injuries to his legs so he went down. She then started breaking stuff in his house before exiting through the front door.
Luckily, my kids didn't wake up and my exH stayed up through the night. First thing in the morning, he went and reprogrammed the garage door opener. Then he changed all the locks in the house again and put deadbolts on all the doors. He is embarassed and refuses to call the police. He only told me about this incident because she alluded to it in a message she sent to my current DH.
I am so lost on this. One the one hand, this woman is crazy and I am terrified that she is going to hurt one of my kids. On the other hand, my exH wants me to leave it and not fan the flames by getting the police involved. Without my exH's cooperation, is there anything I can do to stop her from coming around?