Living with emotional baggage
Sometimes I wonder why I selected a man that was so previously abused by another woman, why did I take on the emotional baggage. Sure my dh is a great looking guy, who has a heart of gold, except that is towards his wife. Why is it that when a man finally finds a woman that has done nothing but seriously stand by his side during numerous court hearings, battled with in-laws, and helped him run a business w/o asking anything in return, why is it that a man still can not learn to trust again?
My dh exploded on my last night, of course right before bed so that neither one of us could sleep, and of course it's b/c he can't trust me. Never mind the last 10 years of my life was spent devoted to supporting him, his dreams, and his son that was not mine, forget that, it's all about what a victim he is b/c he was lured into bed with something that looked great, but had nothing to offer in return, and when she intentionally trapped him with a kid, it literally has ruined him for life. It is now very clear to me that he has never trusted me, and will never trust me, not b/c of my own actions, but b/c he let her ruin him.
Anne...my dh is running neck and neck with yours on being in the dog house...oh did I mention, he pulls this bullshit right before our 5th wedding anniversary? It's always nice trying to look the 1000s of cards to find the right one suited for your asshole husband.