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Gossipy SD9

Anywho78's picture

Today, I was studying at the library (I have finals next week!) when SO calls in a panic because the apartment unit above ours was flooded & water was pouring in through the light fixtures & the ceiling (YAY! Perfect timing!!!)

While SO & I are trying to clean up the kitchen & put buckets out to catch water, SD9 picks up her phone & SO asks who she’s texting. She says “I’m texting my mom!”…well…2 seconds later, she comes & asks if she can call her BM. SO says “yeah, whatever, don’t care!” & less than 1 minute later, SD comes in & hands her phone to SO.

Nasty: OMG! What’s leaking??? What happened?
SO: WHAT???
Nasty: Do you have renters insurance?
SO: Really? I don’t have time to talk to you…I’M BUSY!
He passes the phone back to dumb ass SD & BM promptly hangs up the phone.

Turns out, SD9 is quite the gossip! She texted EVERYONE (all 3) of her non-resident contacts with the message “WE HAVE A LEAK!!! :’(“

Really SD? Really?

Not sure what annoys me more…the fact that SD decided to share our business with Nasty or the fact that after not having spoken to her kids in forever, she has SD call her so that she can talk to SO & quiz him on what’s going on…like she could help at all…from FL! Before anyone jumps in saying that SD can’t be blamed because “she doesn’t know”…she does! SD knows damn good & well that OUR business is OUR business & no one elses…we’ve had this discussion.

SD9 now knows that if her gossiping ways continue that she will be losing the phone.

For the record, Nasty last spoke to SD9 on her birthday which was November 20th. That phone call lasted for 3 minutes. The last time Nasty spoke to SS10 was on his birthday which was at the end of September & that one lasted for 5 minutes. No skyping since early September & the last text from her was on Thanksgiving. Yet she can manage to be nosey about our “leak” & she can call SO at LEAST 5 times in the last 2 weeks?

UGH!

Comments

crystalclear's picture

Seems to me that SD thought maybe her mom might think this was important enought to call or txt about. I think she just wanted a reason so her BM would talk to her. Not saying that speading your bussiness isn't bad but its sad this is what got BM's attention not her daughter.

Anywho78's picture

Yes, I agree with you. Every time she's called SO, it's about HER job, HER money, HER, HER, HER...no concern about her own kids...she hasn't once asked him how the kids are doing...NOTHING.

Anywho78's picture

Would you be more agitated with that fact if the BM wasn't even involved in ANYTHING to do with her children though? I can almost understand kids that see/talk to their BM's all the time but in this situation, it was REALLY stupid!

Anywho78's picture

Smile thanks for your response. SD was not freaked out. She thought the whole fiasco was hysterical. She texted MIL, her cousin & Nasty. She wasn't being made to help clean up or anything else...she was playing in her room, singing & dancing.

This SD is NOT the freak out type. It would take an act of God for anything to actually affect her that way. She's her BM's daughter. Unless it affects her personally, it is of no consequence.

imjustthemaid's picture

It definitely gets worse as they get older. SD16 now posts everything on Facebook and twitter!! We can't make a move without everyone knowing about it in 3 seconds!! Her new thing is to take pictures and tweet them!! It's getting on my nerves.

Anywho78's picture

LOL Yes...I can see this when SD is of age. At least she'll be gossiping to the WHOLE world & not specifically to Nasty. I'm looking for the proverbial rainbow Wink

newbiemommy's picture

LOL! OMG! Of course she would. Sounds like SD11. And of course BM LOVES to jump on any opportunity to talk to SO. She even showed up at our door when I filed for an order of protection to talk to SO so that he would know what kind of person I really am. She tried to tell him she had proof of me saying all this stuff... LOL.