OT - Ghosting
Happy New Year, STalkers! Fingers crossed (toes and eyes, too!) that 2021 starts improving.
I mentioned on another blog that I'm getting close to ghosting my sister. She's been pestering me to hang out with two of her friends (a couple). I wrote on the other blog...
Hey, lovely that you have friends to hang with during quarantine. Enjoy. But don't get p!ssy with me because I'm not interested in joining your group. Bitchy Aniki has zero desire to "expand my circle of friends" at this time. Keep pushing me and you'll find yourself ghosted.
I did not write that in jest. While it's true I become more introverted as the quarantine continues, I don't feel I'm wrong for not wanting to socialize. She's ragging on me and poo-pooing my reasons for keeping my distance.
- You're turning into the unibomber and need human contact
- Staying home all of the time isn't good for you
- You're depressed and need to get out.
Pfffft. I have human contact every day with DH and various phone calls and fail to see why I need in-person contact right this effing minute.
And since she won't listen to me (older, wiser, and bossy as eff), I'm literally on the verge of ghosting her.
Has anyone else successfully ghosted a close family member? Any tips/warnings?