Being a stepparent is really hard
Why does be a stepparent has to be that hard? Since I'm a member here I've been reading blogs and sometimes I feel sad or angry or something about the majority of us having a really hard time dealing with step kids.
Some stepkids are really horrible. Once I read someone dealing with a stepkid trying to almost kill this person, putting poison or something in the toothbrush, stepkids hurting stepparents physically, whaaat?
A lot of us here are really kind people, sometimes even when stepkids are horrible with us we are there for them in such a nice way. Why everything around them has to be all negative? Hypocrisy, selfishness, lies, aggression, unhappiness, and I'm talking about a lot of us here that had to deal almost 90% of the time with bad things.
Most of the time we make efforts when we don't have to, only to have peace and sometimes believing things will get better.
In some cases even birth parents are not all the problem in certain situations, this children are so unhappy, so selfish that they want everyone be unhappy like them, they ruin everything on purpose, why if is so much easier to be happy?
Why not to be grateful? Why not to have respect for others? Why not to be happy and make others happy?
Why they take the most horrible way to live?
I hope someday things get better for a lot of us here, I hope someday all the efforts we do everyday have a reward, I know a lot of marriages here are really good, except for stepkids. I write this because sometimes we feel misunderstood, because we feel less or in second place. You are not alone, we are all here for support.
If you want to vent, to write how you feel or what you hate, feel free!