Don't know what to think
Since YSS told "H" he wasn't coming over (last blog) things have gotten worse, way worse!
BM keeps texting H about YSS. BM took YSS to a therapist because he keeps getting very emotional and cries a lot. Therapist (psychologist) diagnoses him with major depression and he is prescrbed Prozac (don't know how a psychologist prescribed it but maybe it was his regular MD? Dunno). This was less than 2 weeks ago and YSS starts his Prozac.
Wednesday, H goes over to pick up YSS and BM and YSS meet him in the driveway and YSS tells him he doesn't want to come over but won't say why. So H gets mad and comes back to the house. Last night, BM sends H a novel length text about YSS. YSS cut his knuckles with a knife and she met/discussed it with YSS therapist. Therapist stops the prozac and recommends YSS see a psychiatrist (per BM) because the prozac seemed to be making his symptoms "worse". So now YSS is on Celexa. BM is a medical genius but seems unaware that prozac can take weeks and weeks to start "working" because it needs to get into your system. It seems that she wants an automatic cure for YSS depression and that's not going to happen!! And of course YSS has the patience of a gnat! It's not like treating strep throat.
The psychiatrist she chose is out of network, because, BM!! This is SO typical BM. She has to have the specialist most advanced state of the art treatment!
The topper is YSS told BM he doesn't want to come over because of ME! That really hurt my feelings because I know what I've done for him. I will say no to him and he isn't used to that. No matter what, I'm always the bad guy. YSS doesn't realize the trips we've taken, the time I've picked him up from practice and then took the kids out because H was passed out drunk. He won't appreciate that I was trying to prevent him from getting into an adult situation he couldn't get out of, when I made him bring home the golf cart from his girlfriend's house. YSS has witnessed H and I fight and H sides with skids. I'll be okay but it just hurts, can't help it!
H texted BM asking why YSS was taken off prozac so soon and she said it was because they were concerned about suicide. Isn't it a "jump" to go from psychologist to psychiatrist? If YSS were endangering himself they would admit him to a facility? H also said he wouldn't be paying for the out of network psychiatrist!
H and I want him to get the proper treatment. BM needs to understand that there aren't quick fixes when it comes to mental health.
I'm about done because H still bitterly complains about BM "effing him over" because she was the mother of his children. I told him he needs to get the hell over it and move on. And that he must still have feelings for her if it's still got him riled up 10 years later! FFS.