Okay so this is a touchy subject for most people and I understand that. 
 

I grew up in a family where I got to see my grandparents kind of often when I was young, bc we lived near them still, then we moved to a diff state and we began seeing them only during holidays, occasional special visits etc. that was fine w me as a child and if anything it made my time with them all the more special! 
 

So we cancelled on SD this weekend just gone. We had work and plans with friends, said we'd pick up during the week as extra (as it's half term) and have her 2 days at the weekend (so already extra to what we're supposed to). All hell broke loose. 

BM posted on Facebook a photo of SD crying with a tagline of "this is what happens every weekend when deadbeat dad doesn't show". Lies. Lies. Lies. We have her every weekend. We wanted to REARRANGE this one. Everyone knows how full on a dad he is. Normally.