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Trying to keep it together...my very own Pandora's Box...

MrsP78's picture

Have you ever become the worst version of yourself? That a Pandora's Box of all the hateful things, your spite, your arrogance, your condescending side has sprung open? Someone upsets you and instead of smiling and walking away, you nail them to the wall with words. "Hello it's my nasty side". Wouldn't it be great if you could pass all your not so nice words to someone that can't do what you can do with words, then you could always be nice and they could be nasty whenever they wanted to be? Although I must warn you...

Today i told him to leave and take HER with him!!

lovebug's picture

So today i told my partner to leave and take the little brat with him. I told him i couldn't do it anymore...

My day ended with us looking at engagement rings!!! Go figure.

Blinded by love. He asked me to give him 1 month to work things out. To lessen the burden. To make me happy.

New Soon to be Step Mom

newlife2010's picture

I have never had any kids and I've been in a relationship and engaged for the past 9 months with the love of my life and his 2 kids. He's been recently divorced for 3 years and his exwife got married to one of their close friends a year after their divorce. So, the kids have known the exwifes husband for years before and they love and respect him, but since I've come along I have heard nothing but grief about me being in the picture. The 15 year old with her list wasn't happy about...

IT'S NOT MY FAULT!!!!!

kandi27284's picture

I need help my husbands strained relationship with SD13 is taking a toll on our marriage. We have been married 13 years shortly after we got married his visitation got cut. We have very limited funds so hiring lawyers has been out of the question. He has tried to come to agreements with the BM on visitation. No luck this has gone on for years. He sees his dsughter sporaticly. It's killing him though he rarely speaks on it. I've tried to do all I can to help including trying to forge a relationship with my SD on facebook. Things were going ok.

Ah, the SD once again has his attention

Freedom2005's picture

ARRGG!!!!

I am beginning to hate school breaks. I honestly look at this 10 year old child and think that she has him wrapped around her little pinky! It pisses me off!

Sunday night, we were laying on our bed, cuddling, strange enough. I have been very happy with this of late. He has been more affectionate. He gets that way sometimes. I really like those times Smile

Is it okay that he does not want to introduce me to the mother of his child?

slorenzo86's picture

I'm currently dating a man with two children, two different mothers. One of his children lives 15 minutes away from us and the other lives in another state. He and I have been living together for almost a year and there has been much talk about marriage. His oldest son who lives near us is at our house three day a week. We have a lot of interaction with his mother and stepfather, whether it be sporting events, school meetings and holidays in general. There is quite a bit of communication with the mother.

Trying to have a baby. How many women over 40 here?

cantmissamy's picture

Ok. This is off topic again. Sorry.. But I am 41 my dh is 39 and we are trying to have a baby here that is our own, not my bio or his bio.. Just wondering if anyone knows of any natural herbs that we can try to have a baby. I know this sounds wacky but I would really like to try the natural method first. We have tried making love every night, but have missed a few days which I am afraid was during my ovulation.. Yet another month and yet another period that has started. Big let down here.. If anyone can help please let me know...
Hugs to all..
cantmissamy

Does it ever stop?

unbelieveable's picture

*siigghhhs* There is no custody agreement between FH and BM. It's just we have the kids every weekend...and whenever else she just feels like bringing them over...Like when she just plans random trips with friends...or whatever. We get them. We don't complain. They are his kids and I love them like I would love my own if I had my own. However...sometimes...I need a break from the:

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