Have any of you sold a house that was purchased AFTER the divorce?
My question is, have any of you had a house that was not part of the divorce settlement. Either you or you and your dh purchased it once together, and go to sell it? Can the bm try for any of the proceeds?
The reason I ask, is the bm is very curious about what we are asking for our house. She knows that we are selling it. Its mine. I purchased it prior to marrying my dh, and I am the one selling it.
Anyone?
Fleas - Long, but worth it, I think... (SoVerySad - This is the blog that you inspired me to look up and write!)
I joined the website "Daughters of Narcisisstic Mothers" to see if I could get any information to help SD cope with some of her mother's behaviors, as well as to see if DH and my suspicions are right about BM. They have been very gracious and welcoming to me there. I feel very lucky to have been able to have their support when we took SD low contact with her mom. Anyway, I just came across this post and it was FANTASTIC. It was written by "Light" who is just so knowledgeable - and sweet and friendly!
I hate to do this, but it's time for the BITCH in me to rear her ugly head on SS25. GET READY FOR THE THUNDER!!!
As many of you know, DH and I had a little heart to heart conversation with SS25 a week ago today. I took from our conversation that he was going to get off his ass and look for a job. And he did that. For one whole day. Now it's back to laying around on his ass again while DH and I both work two jobs and pay all of the household expenses. So obviously, the heart to heart didn't work. Kicking him out is not an option, as he has no place to go. Giving him lists of chores as if he were 12 years old didn't work, because he doesn't do them, or he does them half way.
First weekend with a new mindset...
I have been searching for some good discussion and just plain venting about being a step parent for the last year. I knew it wouldn't be easy for me. First I lived a happy single life for 31 yrs in another state. My hubby and I met when we were both 28 at a large industry trade show. He lived in the mid-atlantic and I lived in the mid-west. We fell hard for each other very quickly. I knew he was "the one" very early on, I had dated many guys before him so I was pretty confident that, in spite of the very different life he lived, he was the right man for me.
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Lies & Stealing ...Can I Get A Valium?
Where to start...Well let us begin with LIES:
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It's very tough to be a step parent
First - I love my wife dearly. Being a good parent is not one of her finer qualities. My opinion, of course.
She has 2 daughters - ages 30 & 27. Both have lived with us for extended periods of time.
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My first entry
And I want to start it out by thanking all of those avid posters whose IDs I see all over the place. I signed up before Valentine's Day, I think, and posted directly afterwards, because I REALLY needed it! I was happy to read all those who answered, even those who were straight up "give him that ring back, get outta there!" I drew strength from that, so thank you!! I talked with my mom and my sister on the telephone...I'm giving this relationship another three weeks.
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Does it ever get any better?
The resentment I have built up against my step children is driving me insane! Please, will I always feel this way?
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Just when I thought it couldnt get any harder
Okay I am going to go insane! I have been married to "Joe" for 2 1/2 yrs. He has 2 children from a previous relationship and I have one child from a previous relationship. Then we have a child together. His two are a girl, 13 boy, 10. Mine is girl, 10 and we have a boy, 3 together. I feel as if my life is in constant turmoil! If I write everything I have gone thru in the past 5 yrs that I have been with Joe I would be writing a book! So heres a short version:
"Not my problem, not my problem"
This was my mantra today. I let go of the prom dress stress. I didn't worry with the school night sleep-over. Loghead asked if I would be available to pick up the boys after practice tonight, and I told him no, I wouldn't be home in time.
Home is peaceful tonight...
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