So SO took BM to court last week for breach of access. Outside court she agreed to restore access but had a family event next weekend (SO's normal weekend access) so they agreed he'd have them last Fri/Sat and next Fri/Sat then resume access as normal. SO agreed to this only because the case was being pushed out and may not have been heard until July. She also agreed to sign passport applications and she was given them to sign. They agreed that they would each hold one passport.

I stepparented a teenage girl for almost 5 years. I love her father dearly, but living with this girl was the most stressful experience I have ever been through. Her mother passed away when she was young. She came to live with me when she was 12. Everyone in her life felt sorry for her because her mother was sick most of her life and eventually died. She was raised without boundaries and no one ever told her that her behavior was inappropriate when they should have. I made her live by rules in my house and she had never lived in a structured environment.

Well I knew I would be back on here at some point this weekend. Last night was the benefit for BM and I grudgingly agreed to go to show my support. It was a pretty drama-free evening, except she did tell me she wanted to get everyone together for breakfast the next day and she would talk to my fiance's mom. I was like whatever. I assumed it would just be breakfast with her and her boyfriend, my fiance's son, and my fiance's family (and him of course). So we get to Ihop and what do we find out, but her parents were also invited to breakfast.

Monday will be the first "official" day of my summer vacation. Both stepsons were gone for the weekend. And Princess has been working for the last four days, so I've hardly seen here. I'm really not looking forward to us all being home tomorrow.

Okay, so PITA is still staying with the in-laws for his little blow-up on the 11th, calling me a b%$^& and saying he hates me, and I don't love him, and I never do anything for him. Loghead says he can stay at grandpa's and rot if he likes. Loghead says he's not coming home until he can learn some respect.

http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/04/how-to-stop-enabling-when-our-gr... - How to stop enabling adult children
http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/05/setting-boundaries-with-your-adu... Boundaries With Your Adult Children: Six Steps to Hope and Healing for Struggling Parents

In high school, there were four of us that hung out all together - like the Golden Girls. The last of us is now pregnant - but really, I am the last one, and I have yet to get pregnant. I am a stepmother which to ME is being parent.
Today my dearest friend said she is finally going to have a baby. I told her congratulations but I realized I don't have any of my own. JUST WHEN I THOUGHT I WAS OVER THIS wanting my own baby thing ...

I know that part of it is due to the fact that I am trying to quit smoking. I have been doing okay, taking a couple of puffs here and there, but hadn't had a cigarette since Wednesday (this is improvement since I was going through 1 1/2 packs per day). SO decides that he also wants to quit. I'm already getting worried because I know how I get when I try to quit and I know how he gets, but all seemed to be okay. Until today. SO goes to pick up ss9. When ss9 comes back, he starts doing the little divisive act that he sometimes does.

For a second job my DH works at a motorcycle shop. For those that don't know from past blogs...BM is a stripper. So DH brings up some biker concert thats going on and asks if I want to go, I ask for the info and he says to go on the website for the motorcycle shop. I go to the website and the first thing I see is a flyer for a day that DH works for a car/bike show with car/bike washes by the girls of soandso nightclub. YES, THE CLUB THAT BM STRIPS AT!!! OMG!!! HOW THE HELL DOES THAT HAPPEN???!!! THEY ARE HAVING STRIPPERS DO CAR/BIKE WASHES AT HIS JOB, LMAO!!!

The kids are here for the Summer now. The bf went and got them Thursday night but they weren't out of school until Friday. now that's another story. The mom keeping daughter9 home because she was arguing with friends and it was getting catty!!! So she keeps her home from school!!!!! Arghhhh!!!! **sigh** for another post..... So anyway, BF takes the kids to grandma's house Friday and they want to spend the night, so they do.

I dont love my SS. My husband resents me because of it. Our relationship is falling apart because I cant seem to care for his child the way he cares for mine. Im annoyed and frustrated when my SS is around. Every time I make an attempt to get closer to my SS he does or says something that pushes me away. How do I turn this off?!! I want to love him! I do! but I dont know how! I just want us to be a happy family but I dont see it ever happening. Im so lost and alone. I dont know what to do.