At therapy yesterday, DH attended with SS9.

This was one of those ones that makes us flip and I am glad I didn't go because DH is far less emotional than me - sometimes I think HE has Asperger's and that is where SS9 got it.

SS16 had his hearing a couple weeks ago, and was given one day of community service. Big fracking deal. Today was the day - and they only kept him an hour because it was "too cold" (30 degrees).

Ok, so I guess he's learned not to worry about getting picked up trespassing at 4AM, because at the end of the day NOTHING will happen.

I didn't go to the hearing. SO told the committee that he felt that by giving SS only one day of community service and not even recommending counseling, they were failing to help SO and BM to bring SS back under control.

This feels kind of weird to talk about, but I really don't know what to do about it.. For the last few months I have completely lost my sex drive, and became alot less affectionate also. Has this happend to anyone? Do you know how to get it back? The idea of sex in genral just turns me off, I don't even like discussing it with my husband and as I don't want it to ruin my marriage it may go down that road. It's not like I'm just not attracted to my husband. I am literally not attracted to anyone. could it be medical?

So I had some thought's

Name the 3 worst things bm ever did to you, dh or the sk

1. Sending her sister who is in her 40's and her mother who is in her 60's to my house, to fight me lol. I tell you that was one ugly night, I almost got arrested. I am not proud of it ,but I was only protecting myself. I mean seriously don't try to fight somebody and then cry because you got your ass kicked.

2. When ss then 10 had to return one summer from bm house, she put him alone in a car for a 9 hour drive with a guy she only knew for 1 week.

I just wanted to say thank you all for being there for me through the pregnancy and birth of my twins to help me deal with SS ,breast feeding, BM ,MIL and DH I always know I am not alone you guys are my support group if it wasnt for you guys i would be out of my mind right now you are amazing Step parents thank you so much GOD bless and lets keep spreading the love you dont know how your kind words and thoughtful advice can really save marriages and brighten someones day I love and appreciate each and every member of Straighttalk.org XoXo kisses

Does anyone own this car or a different year possibly that you can tell me what your experience has been with it. I don't know much about Hyundai and I am considering purchasing this car. Thanks!

}:) I am so pissed off right now! All day he runs to his cell phone all nervous checking it.
He leaves the house, I'm doing some shopping online, so I look in his email for a customer ID, and I see he sent his freaking ex a text message,"phone on silence I call back at 4:30 on my way to work".

It's been a while since I visited because, to be frank, I've been wanting to die.
Despite using birth control, I found out I was pregnant with twins a few weeks ago. Me and my SO had talked about having children in the future, if we could work through the issues that being in a stepfamily throws up.

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PS. Set to private so no one can see content!! You will only be added if you PM me or NCMilGal so we know who you are...trying to avoid crazy BMs or crazy poster *ahem ahem* from randomly joining.