My FDH is FINALLY filling the divorce papers today! So in about a month and a half he will be officially divorced! And I will no longer be with a 'married' man... Well at least until he marries me so so happy it's finally happening!

I am so frustrated I have no clue what to do. Every time we have my SS6 my Husband and I fight. Constantly bc he doesn't like how I discipline SS6. He also says I discipline our Bs2 differently. UMMM YA they are 4 years apart and our BS doesn't understand like our SS. I feel like this is a never ending battle I am beyond annoyed that I constantly get the eye role or a comment after I say anything to SS. Oh and to top it off he called me a dungeon master and said that is how I act towards the SS. I told him he could find someone else to freakin watch him then bc I am threw.

My ss6 is a good kid for the most part. It's been him and DH alone for the last four years before I came along and BM stayed away doing her own thing until I was known. Ss6 is getting to see more of his BM which is great but the more he spends time with her the more I see her in his attitude and the way he acts. He talks badly to DH and demands things from him. He doesn't listen until I put the rules into place and then he cries. He doesn't say please or thank you unless I'm around. He is very sneaky and wants to be spoiled all the time.

I'm new to the site, but have a feeling this will be a very good thing for me.. A place to vent without judgement. And hopefully receive some advice which will make my position more bearable. So here goes with my story..

As I posted before, BM refused to sign the CO. FDH's attorney *finally* calls and says the CO was sent to BM's attorney for BM to sign; BM finally signed and, it had been sent to the judge to sign. We get the CO yesterday and the whole thing has been re-written!

This is my first blog.......i am a bio mom and a step mom to a ss9 and sd5. They are great kids, I also have my own kids g18, g13, b8, all of the kids get a long great. The problem is their mother. She is a pain in the butt. My husband has joint custody and gets them every other weekend and every wed. up until the point we started dating she would let my husband see the kids when ever he wanted, and since we have gotten married its just awful and she is bitter. We have filed paperwork with the court for 50/50 parenting time and she went and got an attorney.

So, I blogged a couple of days ago about how my MIL freaked out at the airport and flipped out on DH calling him an A**hole in front of the kids and how MIL really doesn't have anything to do with SD or our BS and how she favors DD5.

VD (SD 12 1/2) cancelled yet again the third counseling meeting in a row that she BEGGED GG (biodad) to come to.

The counselor called GG and told him that VD had cancelled because she was distressed over the thought of discussing her terrible grades in 6th grade (mostly Fs and one D)

She will NOT tolerate anyone telling her to "straighten up and fly right" even though it would have been a paper tiger talk on the part of GG. He seldom if ever follows through as he's one of the biggest guilty daddies on the planet.

At this point, I am CONVINCED that the ONLY thought that runs the SD10s head is "duuuhhhhh I can play stupid and I will get out of doing my chores and no longer be in trouble for not doing them last week and I LIKE being in trouble" Serisouly? This child can take the simplest task and make it into an all out production. DH told her to get dressed and it took her 30 minuets to put on a pair of shorts and a T-shirt.

I hate liars. Does anyone know anything about IEP? I am on a fact find mission for BF. I try to not get involved but i do like to give BF the facts and hope he will do the right thing with them. We have always had an issue with BM lying (about everything) but lately it's at an all time high and about stuff that she should not be lying about. Which has made BF and I question her more and look into the truth more. She called last night and said something to BF along the line of "Don't you trust me." "Do you think that I am lying" to which BF said nothing.