Wow. I am being talked about, like we talk about BM’s on here! WTH. I will try to condense this as best as I can…
Me and ex split about 11 years ago…he was taking a bad path, and I would not have that in my house. He found a trashy wife but she was ok with the kids. They married about 3 months after he moved out. I actually was glad. That is how bad he was getting.

I saw this story online this morning and wanted to share. Since BM has shown she is a 'letter writer' and thinks she is better than everyone else, I fear this may be my Step Sons future. I could totally see BM doing this to some poor girl that happens to fall in love with her son but does not meet her standards - hell she has sent BF a few of these regarding me...

http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/mother-in-law-sends-worst-email-ever-...

I just learned last night that we have SS from today through Tuesday when their mom gets off work. It's our holiday so I knew we had them through Monday, but had no idea about Tuesday. My daycare lady was off this week & will only be back on Wed so I had to take vacation on Tues, Thurs BS is going to my coworkers house ( he is friends with her kids & she has a girl that comes to her house ) and Friday DH is taking off. I could have just paid the kids again & saved my vacation day.

I just read some government website in our country (in Europe) where it says that CS DOES NOT STOP when the child turns of legal age!!!!

The CS stops only when either the kid gets married, or finds a job.

GOOD GRIEF!

And even when the child finds a job, if he/she decides to go back to school, lucky dad will have to resume paying CS!

HOW RETARDED IS THIS SHIT??

I really need some advice ladies. I have two step daugther one is 8 the other one is 10. My husband and I have been married for 3 yrs. And we have two lil boys one. Is 3 and the other one is going to be three months. We'll anyhow ihave been having several issues with this woman since my husban and I got together which we have been together 4 yrs now. My recent issue at the moment is that my step daugthers mother decided to dye the girls hair with out commenting it to my husband.

Seriously. Ss13 has been visiting regularly for a year now. (after 3 years of little to no visits). Why does my stomach get in knots and my heart beat faster wheb he is around? It wasn't like this when he was younger and DID visit regularly. But for the last year I get so nervous being around him it's like I shut down almost.

I'm desperately seeking help from anyone whose dealt with a nut job ex that insists on using the child as leverage. I have been with my husband for almost 3 years now and his ex gf (thats right gf, not wife!), does not leave us alone. Granted, they have a 4 yr. old daughter together. She does not allow us visitation, although it is every other weekend. My husband makes all his CS payments, and takes care of both his children. When we are allowed to see her, generally his ex is late, makes us drive both ways
(2-4 hrs), & the child is dirty and hungry.

I hardly ever post, because just thinking about this stupid shit, let alone verbalizing it, usually completely pisses me off.

My MIL is absolutely the most self-centered, narscissistic person I know. Even moreso than my dad. She constantly looks for ways to exert control over what DH and I do, especially when it comes to SD13 (we have her full time, and I have been in the picture since she was 7). This time though, she has just gone too damn far.

We have a two week on, two week off summer custody arrangement. The kids will be back from BMs in just a few days for our two weeks. Our first two week rotation was so awful that I am very apprehensive about their return. There were a lot of little things that went on during that time but one sticks out in my head and makes my temperature rise every time I think about it.

BM's better half has been federally indicted for tax fraud.

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