Well, the weekend went ok ... He came out to mum and dads (half hour away) on the Saturday, unfortunately, he brought with him the only person who I didn't want to see - his brat. Mum was outside and saw them drive in, so she came up the front stairs and knocked on the door - I opened it and mum said someone's here, so I said "I don't want him". The whole morning and basically the day, I didn't talk to him or anything, I didn't find him worth it, I was over everything.

I feel jealous of my boyfriend's one and only son (8) and I'm afraid my reactions are petty and immature. My BF shares 50% percent custody with his ex and now that summer is here, that means one week with us, and one week with her. My BF and I have a great relationship, but when his son visits, it goes to hell. I think we have several issues:

Hello, I so need some advice if anyone outthere has any ideas please. I am a single mum of two, I work snd I had been out of a relationship for two years following the break down of my marraige. The man that I have begun to date I have known for years he is 15 yrs older than me. He is a bit of a wild card but has such a big heart. He has been through major hard times in his life, as we all have but he unfortunatly lost his first wife at the tender age of 28. He Has a son by her then 6yrs later met and remarried his now x wife and they have a daughter aged 18.

so I was working on a piece two nights ago and got a nasty chemical burn in both my eyes! :jawdrop:

I was blinded and in agony, the mister carried me into the ER screaming...today my eyes are just well enough to read and write a bit so I thought I'd check in here.

I have maxed out all of my credit cards on making sure the girls have clothes, shoes and nice things for when they are here...made the mistake multiple times of allowing the girls to take home their good clothes from here I never get back...and I always say Nope...I am never going to do that again...and then I do. My own stupid fault. And yet BM still calls here and asks for money...which boyfriend of 4 years does not give her since he gives her over half of his pay and doesn't bring anything home. While I am in debt...depressed...gained 40 lbs.

SD15 came over last weekend & things were uneventful. Hopefully she’s turning a new page as far as her behavior goes. There are many issues between her & her BM Redneck, but that is normal & is to be expected.

SO & I greatly enjoyed our 4 days of being Skid free during our FL trip

Wow!!! I had to share this message with you that I received today from BM. I'm actually tripping about her displayed rage, hatred, & obvious jealousy . . . wow!!! She is so far gone & she'll never change. SMH. Oh so that you know what happened, I found out that SS11 was on FB & I sent [him] the following message & several weeks later (today/Saturday), I received this message from BM.SMDH

DH and I are waiting for the arrival of our DD any day now... I was wondering if after she is born if we can get CS modified because of the new addition to our family and home?? She currently gets a little over 1/2 of his BAH (Basic Housing Allowance) and we live off of his paycheck only because I was a full-time student and too far along in my pregnancy to find a job over the summer... and I had his kids for almost 2 months and it was cheaper for me to care for them than to get daycare for them... So basically BM is getting $550 a month for 2 kids...

I've been thinking about what we're doing this Xmas because last year was a disaster that I don't want to repeat. Anyway, I decided that we should take a mini trip so our son can go to the amusement park and we can have some couple's time. Well DH automatically thinks his kid is invited.