..so the calls for random shit have started.

We were on holiday for a week, and neither she, nor the ss were informed. SS is spending summer with her parents in a countryside at this time. His birthday was comming up in couple of weeks (from the time we were on holiday).

The bitch calls, 5 times (4 missed calls), to ask WHAT WILL HE BE GETTING THEIR SON FOR HIS BDAY, so they dont buy double.

WHAT THE F+++ BITCH?

So BM has a new boyfriend since the beginning of June. We didn't know much about him other than his first name and his last name was a big secret, none of the kids knew. The only other thing we knew was that he used to be a cop in our town at some point in the past. So we say to ourselves "Oh, good, if he used to be a cop he probably doesn't have a criminal record unlike the other convicted and previously imprisoned drug dealers/wife beaters she usually dates."

My DH met with SS to talk about the finances. I was also there at this "meeting". We told him how sorry we were about BM. It was the first time he has seen SS in weeks. We talked it over and we decided (although I was not entirely happy) that he would give SS 400 dollars a month, the car that has been paid for, plus car insurance and a small gas allowance. But there were some conditions. SS was to have a part-time job ,maintain good grades and he was to visit us every weekend without fail. And my DH wanted the scholarship information so he can help SS plan his finances.

Where to start... On Saturday DH gets a call her but I take it because he is driving. We pull into a store at the same time. She askes to talk to the kids. Neither of them are with us, but I can tell she has been crying. sooooooooooo I try to help. The main reason is I would rather her talk to me than take it out on the skids. She states the the people she is living are telling her she is a bad mother because she medicates her youngest son. He has ADHD and a heart condition that he was born with.

Hi, i'm new here so i'm not really sure how to start off..

well ss 13 has not gotten better but has continued too go into a downward spiral!!!Just got back from a family vacation in Florida which was hell listening to ss mom yell at him and he says you can suck it mom,and other nasty little comments the whole trip,we even took one of his friends hopeing it would make it better ,well long behold he was still a little asshole..

Hi. Brand new to this but looking forward to the responses. I have been married to my husband for five and a half yrs. My sd's are fifteen and eight and we have had a good relationship from the beginning. Out of nowhere recently I was told by my husband that his ex-wife told him that I said inappropriate things in front of the girls and it really upset them. What I said was an anatomically correct explanation to a question from the youngest. Nothing dirty or inappropriate at all. But I am bothered by two things.

Here's the background.

New to the blog, so frustrated don't know what to do...

My ss is 11 going on 30. He is non stop trying to run the house and is always running his mouth. He has adhd and no discipline. He tells me to shut up and tells me what he is and isn't going to do and im to my breaking point. I can't keep telling my gf how awful her child is but it seems like that's all I do. I have no authority what so ever cause if I say anything he runs to his dad and WW3 breaks out. I dread going home cause I know im gonna have to deal with him and Idk what to do anymore. My ss doesn't listen to his mother doesn't listen to me and his bf let's him get away with murder.